How To Keep So Do Be From Seeing Me On Messenger App

You can turn off your active status on the Facebook website, Facebook mobile app, and Messenger mobile app.
When your active status is turned off, you will appear offline even when you're online.
You can also choose to appear offline only for certain people that you select.
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Facebook may be responsible for putting the word "social" in social media, but there are times when you don't want — or don't have time — to engage with friends.

If you want to log into Facebook without your friends knowing you're online, you can easily turn off your "active status" so you appear offline.

There are three different places where you can control your active status: on Facebook in a web browser, in the Facebook mobile app, and in the Facebook Messenger mobile app.

How to turn off active status on Facebook in a web browser

To turn off active status and appear offline on Facebook:

1. Open Facebook in a browser and log in, if you're not already.

2. Click the circular Messenger icon in the top-right corner.

Click on the Messenger icon in the corner.

3. In the Messenger drop-down, click the three-dot icon at the top.

Click the three-dot icon at the top of the Messenger sidebar.

4. Click Turn off Active Status in the drop-down menu.

Select the "Turn off Active Status" option.

5. A pop-up will appear asking if you want to Turn off Active Status for all contacts, Turn off Active Status for all contacts except, or Turn off Active Status for only some contacts. When you click the latter two options, a box will appear where you can enter the names of specific people.

Choose who you want to hide your active status from.

6. Click OK when you're done.

How to turn off active status in the Facebook mobile app

1. Open the Facebook app on your phone.

2. Tap the three horizontal lines (called the "hamburger menu") in the top-right corner on Android or the bottom-right corner on iPhone.

3. Tap Settings & Privacy, and then tap Settings.

Tap "Settings" in the "Settings & Privacy" drop-down.

4. Tap Active Status under the Privacy section.

Select "Active Status" at the bottom of the "Privacy" section.

5. Turn off Show when you're active by moving the slider to the left and then confirm by tapping Turn Off in the pop-up.

After swiping the slider to the left, select "Turn Off" in the pop-up.

How to turn off active status in the Facebook Messenger mobile app

1. Open the Facebook Messenger app on your phone.

2. From the main Chats page, tap your profile's avatar at the top-left of the screen.

Tap your profile icon in the upper-left corner.

3. Tap Active Status.

4. Turn off Show when you're active by moving the slider to the left and then confirm by tapping Turn Off in the pop-up.

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Dave Johnson is a technology journalist who writes about consumer tech and how the industry is transforming the speculative world of science fiction into modern-day real life. Dave grew up in New Jersey before entering the Air Force to operate satellites, teach space operations, and do space launch planning. He then spent eight years as a content lead on the Windows team at Microsoft. As a photographer, Dave has photographed wolves in their natural environment; he's also a scuba instructor and co-host of several podcasts. Dave is the author of more than two dozen books and has contributed to many sites and publications including CNET, Forbes, PC World, How To Geek, and Insider.